Wednesday, February 13, 2013

For My Dad

Reflecting on why I'm grateful for my dad:
  1. That one time we had a tea party in the back yard.
  2. The crafts he made me: desk, vase and the wooden heart.
  3. The prayer beads and the Qur'an.
  4. Always writing me letters even though I didn't write as many back.
  5. Being there for me when my older sister passed away.
  6. Taking care of my older sister's house for Mama and me.
  7. Being one of the best cooks I know.
  8. For naming me after his mother.
  9. For sharing my name with my younger sister so that we're always connected.
  10. The times he spent with my younger sister and me.
  11. For attending my college graduation (and sneaking to take pictures of me near the main stage even though no one but graduates were allowed there)!
  12. Advice and wisdom when I needed it.
  13. For being such a bright, conscious man and sharing with me his love of critical thinking, reading, music, spirituality, long and pensive walks, and so on
  14. Loving me in spite of me.
  15. So much more than just this list...
Writing this as I listen to one of his favorite artists:

Monday, February 11, 2013

Interrupting My Not-So-Regularly Scheduled Program

My dad passed away yesterday. Today is my birthday.

I never finished posting about my sister. I doubt I will anytime soon.

No more writing about lost loved ones, etc.

Just this.